Conversations

There would be many conversations i would like to have with my character but there is one major conversation i would have. My conersation would ask how through all the changes in his life how was he able to cope. His lover was changing and so were his surroundings and he still stayed strong throughout the whole thing. So another question i would ask him is how did you not give up in the times that you could've done so?And how were you able to resolve the situation like you did? In my personal opinion this is a very strong character.